Title: “Songs for the Missing”
Author: Stewart O’Nan
Format: Paperback ARC
Number of Pages: 287
ISBN: 978-0-670-02032-4
Publisher: Viking
Date of Publication: November 2008
4 stars: What would you do if your child went missing?
“The first person her mother called was Nina.
The second was J.P.
The third was Connie at the hospital.
The fourth was the police.” (*pg 15)
I admit that I’ve been putting off reading this book. By reading the back blurb I could tell that it would be a depressing read. “Songs for the Missing” is the story of a girl named Kim, and what happens to her family, friends, and community when she goes missing. Neither I, nor anyone in my family, have ever had to experience the disappearance of a friend or family member, for which I am extremely thankful- especially after reading this book. I cannot imagine going through what Kim’s family did.
My issues with this book were few and far in between– oddly enough mainly the beginning and the ending. I felt that we were overloaded with details in the first few pages. It was too much at once, and I really had to push through them. It did pick up after that, and I found it hard to put the book down. As for the ending, I would have preferred if the book had ended without the last two chapters. To me they felt if they had just been tacked on as an afterthought. They weren’t bad, just different, and maybe unnecessary. (Just my opinion of course.) My only other problem with the book was the shift of point of view in the chapters. It at times felt jarring, and took a minute to figure out who was telling the story. However, it was enlightening to see through the eyes of different characters. I particularly found J.P’s (Kim’s boyfriend) point of view the most interesting.
The story itself was hard to read at times. I certainly wouldn’t recommend it for somebody who has had a disappearance of a friend or family member. I got teary-eyed at a couple of spots. The grief, the denial, the searches, the fliers, the volunteers… it was a lot to take in. O’Nan’s use of details make us feel like we are there– you can feel the bushes scrape your leg as you search through the wood, your heart leaps into your throat everytime the phone rings… But from tips to clues, to trying to guess who was guilty-if anyone- overall I felt the story flowed nicely. Even more interesting was the metamorphosis of Kim’s sister and parents.
I think I would recommend this book, so long as the person is aware of the subject matter and believes they can handle it. This is the first of O’Nan’s work that I’ve picked up, but I will definitely be looking for some of his others. (From the back cover: Stewart O’Nan is the author of eleven novels, most recently Last Night at the Lobster, a story collection, and two works of nonfiction. He lives with his family in Connecticut)
(Thanks to Barnes&Noble’s FirstLook Program, Viking, and Stewart O’Nan)
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“As for the ending, I would have preferred if the book had ended without the last two chapters. To me they felt if they had just been tacked on as an afterthought.”
I definately agree with you on this one. It felt like the author didn’t know how to disengage the conversation. I also agree with the POV shift being jarring. I went two or three pages thinking I was reading Lindsay, only to find out I’d been reading Nina.
I also gave it four stars because he’s very logical and thorough at how each individual feels about the vanishing. It would be a painful place to go just in the imagination, let alone experiencing it for real.
I’m glad you gave it 4 stars too. Aside from my problems with it, it was still a very interesting and well written book.
I agree about the ending. I think the book would have been better if they had not found her. I thought the book was supposed to be about learning to live with uncertainty? I thought it was beautifully constructed and crafted but overall pretty dull. O’Nan knows how to create characters and do the whole craft-thing when it comes to writing but it seemed kind of lifeless in a way.
I agree… the more I think about it, the more I’m disappointed he chose to have them find her.
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Lovely review, kegsoccer! I agree with the conditions you listed. I could not have read this book if I still had teenage children at home.
Thanks, I’m with you- I’m not sure I could have read it if I had kids.